Who is pepa pasatu?
I breathe deeply, I am direct and I laugh a lot (great tension release btw).
I also have the energy to tackle topics that others prefer to ignore.
Like sex, gender equality, and all the gaps between genders, eg. pay gap, orgasm gap, medical research gap.
Yes women and men have some biological differences, but the cultural ones are a bit over the top. And the similarities are bigger than you might think. So spectrum, vs black and white. I believe knowledge is power. Knowing your body, your limits, what arouses you. Yet, with sexuality it’s not enough to know, it’s also about doing, experimenting, playing, feeling.
My formation:
I hold an MSc. in Clinical Psycho-Sexology (Sapienza University of Rome & Tor Vergata, Italy), and a BSc. in Psychology (University of Potsdam, Germany & University of Buenos Aires, Argentina).
Yes, I'm multicultural, even in my studies.
Born and based in Berlin.
I am a polyglot: English, German, Spanish and Italian so far, French in process.
I am also a natural redhead - a fiery white privileged minority.
it’s a
pleasure!
What others say about me
“I appreciate your allowance for vulnerability in you and in others, and your patience towards it.”
“I truly believe you are gifting the world something that is relevant for many.”
“When I feel tired & stuck I ask myself “What would Pepa do?”. It is your ability to play with what life gives you that reminds me, that I too can do it - filling me with desire to do so.”
“You create spaces that are special, almost magical. I wholeheartedly wish that many may experience this.”
“Pepa listens to me with open arms - I feel like I can be who I am and become who I want to be.”
“Pepa has a talent for finding pleasure, beauty, and sensuality in everyday life, and sharing it with others.”
“Home is where we blossom and you have made me blossom many times.”
“Thank you for challenging and questioning, tingling all the way through.”
“You are so you, you can’t be anything else.”
Affiliations
* Deutsche Gesellschaft für Psychologen (DGPs)
* In the process of founding the Society of Early Careers in Sexology (SECS)
My top research interests are sexual pleasure, body awareness, and sexual education.
Publications:
Pasatu, W. P. M. & Nimbi, F. M. (2025, February). “Sensing the Body as a Sexual Body” – Exploring Professional Dancers’ Relationship Between Body Awareness and Sexual Pleasure. Poster at the Conference of the European Society of Sexual Medicine, Vienna, Austria.Pasatu, W. P. M. (2024, May). The Elephant in the Room: Sexual Pleasure in Contemporary Research (2018-2023). Presentation at the Conference of the European Federation of Sexology, Bologna, Italy.
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